Joan Ruth Barber
  • Myelodysplastic Syndrome Foundation
    PO Box 353
    Crosswicks, NJ 08515

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“Its been five years Mom. I still cant believe your not here. I think of you everyday and wish you were here with us. I think it gets harder as time...Read More »
1 of 36 | Posted by: Lori Hazen - FEURA BUSH, NY

“Mom,Every time I open this page, I see your face and realize My Mom is gone and it crushes me all over. You are so beautiful, I miss you so so much....Read More »
2 of 36 | Posted by: LORI Hazen - FEURA BUSH, NY

“Three years Mom. I still expect to see you walk through the door,answer the phone,be there when I need you . It is still so hard to believe.I know I...Read More »
3 of 36 | Posted by: LORI Hazen - FEURA BUSH, NY

“Three years ago today my Best friend in the world my wife Joan passed away I miss you Joan , you were my life Love you Honey. Leonard ”
4 of 36 | Posted by: Leonard T Barber - Altamont, NY

“Honey it has been 35 months now and I still miss you, like you passed away yesterday, my heart still hurts when I look at your picture and think...Read More »
5 of 36 | Posted by: Leonard T. Barber - Altamont, NY

“Yes Mom 34 months and we miss you more and more.Your beautiful face, your smile,your laugh,your touch,your smell.I miss your arms around me .I miss...Read More »
6 of 36 | Posted by: LORI Hazen - FEURA BUSH, NY

“To my sweetheart in heaven, Joan I love you and miss you more every day. 34 months ago today I lost my wife , best friend & sweetheart. ...Read More »
7 of 36 | Posted by: Leonard T. Barber - Altamont, NY

“Hi Mom, I sure miss you. It has been 2 1/2 years since you went away. There is not a day that goes by, that I don't think of you. I Love you Mom. You...Read More »
8 of 36 | Posted by: Wendy - Palmer, AK - Daughter

“2and1/2 years ago today the 17 of May my sweetheart went to Heaven. I miss her so much she was my life. I know Joan has no more pain but that don't...Read More »
9 of 36 | Posted by: Leonard T. Barber - Altamont, NY

“Hi Mom It's been 2 years today that you passed away! I Miss you Mom!! I miss going home and having you there! Dad and I have a Great time together...Read More »
10 of 36 | Posted by: Wendy Barber Rosko - Palmer, AK

“Mom, It is two years today, It is so hard to believe.I miss you so much.It is so hard for me with out you. I think of you every day.My heart still...Read More »
11 of 36 | Posted by: LORI Hazen - Feurabush, NY

“It has been one year today since you have passed honey and I miss you more every day that goes by . Joan Ruth you are in my heart for ever,I love you...Read More »
12 of 36 | Posted by: Leonard Barber - Altamont, NY

“happy birthday grandma! we all love you and miss you very much. i miss you every day i think about you. i was at your house today visiting grandpa...Read More »
13 of 36 | Posted by: theresa barber - guilderland ctr, NY

“Every day I look into your eyes . I star , I hope you se me . I love you MOM, ”
14 of 36 | Posted by: Lori - Feurabush, NY - Daughter

“One month today Mom , it seems like yesterday . I miss you so much . I wish I had you to hold . My heart is broken , but I know you are in no pain ....Read More »
15 of 36 | Posted by: Lori - Feurabush, NY - Daughter

“Mom , I miss you . I think of you always . I cry tears of saddness for the loss of you.I miss your smile , your laugh , your voice , your smell . I...Read More »
16 of 36 | Posted by: Lori - Feurabush, NY - Daughter

“Dear Joan my childhood sweetheart I love you so much it hurts,I miss you so much it hurts. I cry for you that you are warm now and no more pain....Read More »
17 of 36 | Posted by: Leonard Barber - Altamont, NY

“Mom , I tried my hardest to keep you with us , I know you were tired and had to go .You are my pride , my joy , my hero and my friend.You are the...Read More »
18 of 36 | Posted by: Lori Hazen - Feurabush, NY

“so sorry to hear of joans passing, she is in a peaceful place now and i will say a prayer for the family during this difficult time. ”
19 of 36 | Posted by: tracy durand

“Wendy and family - my thoughts and prayers are with you always - remember you have a new angel to watch over you - huggs to you all.............. ”
20 of 36 | Posted by: pattie (evon) hoefer - NY

“Mom, where do I start? I still can't believe your gone. I wish I could have been with you to hug & kiss you one last time. To tell you how much I...Read More »
21 of 36 | Posted by: Wendy Rosko - Palmer, AK

22 of 36 | Posted by: Barbara Kaszubski - CLIFTON PARK, NY

“Dear Uncle Len, family and (Joan in spirit), Our loss is heavens gain of a true beautiful angel. The few times we were lucky to get together were...Read More »
23 of 36 | Posted by: Sharon Lynch - Saint Petersburg, FL

“god grandma, im gonna miss you so much. everything about you, your smell, your voice, your laugh, your cards, your love, every little thing about you...Read More »
24 of 36 | Posted by: crystal rafferty - schenectady, NY

“Len - I have been so sad since Pam called with the news. I am so sorry that I cannot pay personal tribute to Joan this weekend.You have been and...Read More »
25 of 36 | Posted by: Charlotte Goedde Ulrich - VA

“Dear Leonard....I am so,so. sorry for your loss of Joanie..she was one in a million, and I will miss her too.. She fought till the bitter end, she...Read More »
26 of 36 | Posted by: Suzen Golden - Duanesburg, NY

“I didn't really know you two in high school cause I was always working. It wasn't until class reunions and lunches that Nancy & I got to know &...Read More »
27 of 36 | Posted by: Orlo Noxon

“Dear Len, We are all saddened with the news of Joan's passing. Joan always had a big smile and warm heart.If she wasn't laughing she was singing.Wife...Read More »
28 of 36 | Posted by: Nancy Lynch and family - St.Pete, FL

“Len, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Joan. Thank You for letting us know. ”
29 of 36 | Posted by: Pat & Peg Wagner - FL - Friend

“Fond memories of Draper High will always include Joan and Len! ”
30 of 36 | Posted by: Clyde Cullings - Frankenmuth, MI

“In the early fifties Len,my brother and I were close friends. I worked with Leanord at Jewitts gas station. We were like the three muskateers. Along...Read More »
31 of 36 | Posted by: John Jackson - Land O Lakes, FL

“Joanie I have known since we where in Draper High School. She and Lenny her sweet heart where always together. The best Class of 53 that Draper...Read More »
32 of 36 | Posted by: Doris Wiltise - Schenectady, NY

“I am so very sorry for your loss. Joan was a wonderful friend to my sister and a beautiful lady. ”
33 of 36 | Posted by: Arlene Reinhart Johnson - NY

“Aunt Sandy and family I am so sorry for your loss. Aunt Joan was such a beautiful lady she will be missed by many. Peace be with you. ”
34 of 36 | Posted by: brenda (white) pollacek - NY

“I will miss you. I wish i was closer to my family but i will always remember my times with you. Tell Grandpa Irv i said hi and ill see him one day...Read More »
35 of 36 | Posted by: Rick Lehnert - Albany, NY

“Joan will be missed dearly. I always considered Joan & Leonard to be my adopted grandparents - the entire Barber family has always held a special...Read More »
36 of 36 | Posted by: Tresa Matulewicz - Altamont, NY

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Joan Ruth Countermine Barber 78 passed away November 17, 2012 at Ellis Hospital with her family by her side from her battle with Myelodysplastic Syndrome (Leukemia). Joan was born on July 18th 1934 in Rotterdam to the late Marie (Seehase) Countermine and the late Clarence Countermine. She was the step-daughter of the late Edna (Howenstien) Countermine. Joan attended Draper High School and met and married her high school sweetheart and best friend Leonard Barber 59 years ago on November 1, 1953 at the Cobblestone Reformed Church in Rotterdam. Joan held numerous jobs, she worked as a receptionist at Buy Rite Supply Company from 1968- 1971, Northeast Saving Bank in Schenectady from 1981-1990 working data entry, research and was assistant supervisor for the Checking department. She retired at the General Electric Company in 1996 working data entry. Her greatest joy and happiness was spending time with her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. They were her life. No mother ever loved her children more. Joan loved to be with her friends, she was always in charge of arranging lunches with her classmates, the golden oldies; She helped coordinate her high school reunion every year. Joan loved to read and sing. She performed with the Schenectady Melodears barber shop chorus for 14 years and she loved to sing to all her children. She is survived by the love of her life, Leonard T. Barber, her children Wendy Sue (Michael) Rosko of Palmer, Alaska, Richard Alan (Margaret) Barber of Guilderland Center and Lori Lynn (Kenneth)Hazen of Clarksville, her cherished grandchildren, Tara(Lionel) LA Grow of Amsterdam, Theresa (Tristan) Clayton of Guilderland Ctr., Crystal (Jason Rickard) Rafferty of Rotterdam, Nicole (Gavin) Bethel of Commerce, Georgia, Andrew Barber of Guilderland Ctr.,, Bryan Rafferty of Clarksville and Alan Barber of Guilderland Ctr., her beautiful great grand children, Julia Barber Strum, Drake Bethel, Kyia La Grow, Alexander Bethel, Ella Rickard, Payten Rafferty, Jaylynn Rickard, Shay Bethel and Sean La Grow, step grandchildren Aimee Cluever, Amber Rich and Steven Hazen of Greenville, her step great grandchildren Gage and Caden Cluever and Alisa Rich, a brother Clarence (Patricia who she loved like a sister) Countermine, a sister Sandra Garling and several nieces and nephews. Joan was also predeceased by her brother Irving (Ruth) Countermine, sister Thelma (John) Schworm and step-brothers Arthur and Melvin Howenstien. A visitation will be held on Friday evening November 23rd from 6 to 8 pm at Bond Funeral Home, Broadway and Guilderland Ave., Schenectady, NY. Funeral service at the funeral home on Saturday morning at 10 am. Interment in Viewland Cemetery. Joan and her family would like to thank Dr. Jaski, Dr Schlossberg of Riverview Cancer Center and all the wonderful nurses that took such great care of her, Also to all the nurses at St. Clares Fusion Center where she had all her transfusions and joined her in so many great friendships. She called you all her angles. In lieu of flowers please make a memorial contribution to the Myelodysplastic Syndrome Foundation, PO Box 353, Crosswicks, NJ 08515